HELP! Big/Little problems :(

[Xylochick216]

When we had people transfer out or graduate, people often took on what we called "pseudo-bigs" and "pseudo-littles." The tree was still intact, but they had their real big and then a stand-in. Often the two families would unofficially merge, and it's cool to see those branches still taking pictures with their "pseudo-families" years later at initiation day, all because two women supported each other.