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Originally Posted by SunDevilGreek
I recently transfered from the University where I was initiated, and since then my little (who I'm really close with) has been telling me that some of the girls in my sorority are trying to take her as a little now that I'm gone. When I took her, she was one of those girls that everyone wanted as a little. And apparently they still do.
It started first when her roommate suggested she take her (and then her roomie's big wrote on my little's wall "GRANDLITTLE!", like it was official), but then I found out there were a few girls that legitimately want her and have brought it up. I think for the most part people assume we're not that close because we have really different personalities.
I'm not sure there's anything I can really do about this, but what do you all think? I'm really upset about the whole thing.
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When I was in college, I adopted my sister-daughter because her sister-mom left school for personal reasons the semester after daughter was initiated. We still saw her around and kept in touch, but she obviously was no longer coming to chapter meetings and events. I can't speak for my new sister-daughter, but I loved being there for her whenever she needed someone to talk to, decorating her door on her birthday, just being there for her.
Get over it. You made the decision to transfer and she's going to need sisters to turn to who are on campus. Don't expect her to burn a candle in your honor by living with that void of not having an adopted big.
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