HELP! Big/Little problems :(

33girl · #1 10-12-2010, 10:48 AM

Like I said, it depends on the degree to which this is being done. In the OP's case, it sounds like girls in the chapter are poaching and trying to push the little into it...which means THEY are just as, if not more, guilty of "objectification" as the big.

Barbie's_Rush · #2 10-12-2010, 10:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl

Like I said, it depends on the degree to which this is being done. In the OP's case, it sounds like girls in the chapter are poaching and trying to push the little into it...which means THEY are just as, if not more, guilty of "objectification" as the big.

Or just as likely that the little is wanting to make sure the big knows how popular and desired she is blah blah. It's just a stupid thing to get worked up over IMHO.It's not like she's still there and they're infringing on a current relationship.

33girl · #3 10-12-2010, 10:58 AM

The depth/importance of these relationships are different at every school and every chapter. If it wasn't like this in your chapter that's fine, but don't be dismissive.