what to expect at a fraternity pref night

[DubaiSis]

I'm not that great at catching the crap here, but this one is chock full of what?
1-you don't pref if you have a penis
2-you don't pref after you pledge, but before
3-if you are serious in your question, I am afraid your chain is being yanked
.....3a-do you have a pledge pin yet? you're being hazed
.....3b-if you don't have your pledge pin yet, you're not a pledge
.....3c-if you have your pledge pin already, you should have already had the terms of your new member period explained to you
4-if you're trying to be be funny on here, you're not.
5-nobody is going to answer the details of membership in a sorority or fraternity

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

nobody is going to answer the details of membership in a sorority or fraternity

It's no secret that many if not most fraternities vote on prospective members before offering a bid and then vote on pledges again (at least once, maybe more) before initiation. It's been discussed here plenty of times.

As far as pledging and having a pledge pin, I assumed that when he said he "just pledged" he meant he just accepted a bid somewhere that rush is structured along the lines of what Gusteau described.