Why does pref night make girls cry? Really, I'm curious. If a guy broke down into tears at the cook-out because he felt "at home" I would kick him out of my house!
Lots of things make girls cry- it is like a chain if one starts then the majority will. I know I do that. Also, pref. night makes you feel so special and wanted- similar to a wedding. How many men do you know that cry at weddings? now, women?
I would love for you to be an Alpha Xi Delta! I have been a new member for about three weeks and could not be happier, but good luck with recruitment and we will all be proud of you no matter what sorority you decide to join.