I feel that agzg said it best. In the same breath you talk about not judging others and their situations without knowing, you do the same thing. You insinuated that your daughter is very busy and many of us (who just happen to post on GC meaning we must not have lives) have nothing going on in our lives. I do feel as though you attempted to use your illness as a means of gaining sympathy for your error in judgment and I have a hard time accepting that behavior.
As I said before, many of us have different life experiences. I've met people who look great on paper but, as soon as you meet them, you question how they made it through high school (let alone get into college). I wish your daughter the best of luck but, let her do this herself. She will learn from this experience. Right now, you are just enabling her to be dependent.
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