I need some ADVICE...

[HappyKappaMom]

It seems you are making your first adult decision. You have to ask yourself:

1. Do I want to be friends with a group of "super nice" young women?

or

2. Do I want to look "cool" walking around campus in the "right" letters?

I read on here one time that you need to imagine your absolute worst day -- bad hair, big zit dead center of the forehead, boyfriend broke up with you, flunked a test in your worst class -- you head back to the sorority house, knock on the door -- which group do you want to answer?

And, remember, there's no guarantee the colonizing group will be well received or have "super nice" girls.

Best wishes.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by HappyKappaMom

And, remember, there's no guarantee the colonizing group will be well received or have "super nice" girls.

Yep. Not to be Debbie Downer and I hope this doesn't happen here, but colonies DO occasionally fail and don't charter at all.

You shouldn't be looking at the colony as something on the same level as what you're going through right now.