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Originally Posted by Katmandu
I absolutely agree that in these ginormous sororities of 200+ and sometimes 250+ women, and pledge classes of 90+ almost any PNM will find a mix of sympatico sisters, frenemies, mentors, casual acquaintances, people they don't like, people they love, people they disapprove of, people they look up to, and people, frankly, they never get to know. To think there is only ONE place they "fit" is ludicrous.
(In a small campus where chapters are 20-30 members, totally different animal.)
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I have to agree. I didn't meet my BFFs during recruitment. In fact, I didn't even meet them until right before initiation. And I didn't really get to know them until spring semester. But I ddn't consider them my best friends until sophomore year. Bottom line, your collegiate sorority experience extends so much beyond recruitment week. PNMs should have faith that if they stick it out, they can have a great experience.