Engaged Encounter

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by AGDee

While I agree with what KSUViolet said, people also need to understand that sometimes one partner lies their asses off during these sessions, makes all kinds of "promises" and then doesn't follow through on a single one of them once they are actually married.

True. If someone's going to do that though they'll do it no matter what. So all other things being equal, you at least improve your odds by seeking counseling?

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

True. If someone's going to do that though they'll do it no matter what. So all other things being equal, you at least improve your odds by seeking counseling?

I definitely agree the counseling should occur. I think it is important for all parties to be honest during that counseling is just the message I was trying to get across. Don't just say things that you think your partner wants to hear.