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Old 07-19-2010, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 View Post
I'm sorry, but I'm not a fan of this either.

I understand that said alumna feels hurt, but I've never seen this type of "why did my legacy get cut?" call go well.

Many times, the alumna unloads on whoever just happens to pick up the phone at the house.

Sometimes, it's just a random active who just happened to walk by the phone --and she gets a total earful from someone she has never met. lol.

So true! We tell(preach to) the girls they are not to engage an alum who calls but to take a number and have the recruitment advisor call her back.

As a recruitment advisor, part of my job was to field those calls and I can think of one instance where I did have to say, and truthfully, "She just slipped through the cracks." It was such a sad situation, and I had nothing I could say to the alum other than those words. She was very nice, just hurt and looking for answers (knowing I really couldn't divulge any real info). The pnm was from out of state and no one really knew her.

The pnm legacy went back through the next year after having made some inhouse friends (at several houses) and pledged our group. Happy Ending. I was so happy to have the chance to meet that mom on Bid Day and give her a hug!
 


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