Daughter's friend's recruitment

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Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

thanx but thats a suuuuuper long thread! maby ill read it over the summer cuz tonight i gotta do ap english homework (yuck!)

u guys keep saying top houses and im not sure what u mean by it. is a top house suposed to be the best or is that an award or something? are all the top houses the popular ones or is it a contest or something? how do u know which are the top houses at a campus?

irregardless, i still dont get what you guys are talking about with this girl or even rush in general. i thought being in a sorority was about finding people like u right? ill admit im pretty popular at my school so im pretty sure i wont fit in with the nerdy, lonly girls in some of the houses. what if the people like me are in a top house or whatever u guys call it

Who you are in HS matters VERY little when it comes to recruitment.

For every pretty popular girl, there are 10 more just like her.

It is about finding people you like, to some degree. However, the sororities are trying to find the same thing.

Generally speaking, the "top house" is the one that many of the girls going through want to be in (for any number of reasons).

This very well could be the house with all the "cute and popular" types in it.

The "top house(s)" simply cannot take every last one of those types of girls.

As I said above, once you get to college, you are one of MANY high school girls who are just like you. Every single one of them is not going to end up in the "top house" at your school. It's impossible.

At the same time, this is all a moot point until you get to recruitment. You could actually MEET people in a house you thought you would love and decide that you don't have as much in common as you thought.

I'd suggest doing some reading here at some point so you can understand the process better. You have alllll summer to do so.

Your theory about only wanting the top house doesn't work if Top House isn't interested in you.