Daughter's friend's recruitment

[RebelCheerBabii]

why does everyone keep telling me i wont get into the houses i want? if u dont know me u dont know what houses im capable of getting into or not. im pretty confident i have the looks, extracuriculars, grades and talent to get in anywhere i want which is why i want to make sure im picking the best one and more importantly the one that is right for me! u guys are so pessimistic and u dont even know me!!!

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

why does everyone keep telling me i wont get into the houses i want? if u dont know me u dont know what houses im capable of getting into or not. im pretty confident i have the looks, extracuriculars, grades and talent to get in anywhere i want which is why i want to make sure im picking the best one and more importantly the one that is right for me! u guys are so pessimistic and u dont even know me!!!

We don't know whether you will or not.

We are just letting you know that almost EVERYONE in recruitment is pretty, smart, talented with good grades.

You have a 3.8, tons of clubs, cheer captain. That's great. But so do alot of girls in recruitment.

We're just saying that you won't be the only one like you.

[Ggirl617]

RebelCheerBabii -

You're in high school so you understand that some kids are considered more popular than others? A lot of this is perception, right? Some of the popular kids might be nice, some might be mean. Some of the losers might be nice, some might be mean. Some of the sororities have different reputations around campus. Some are more sought after than others. Some might be considered more popular than others, but it's probably likely that there are nice/mean girls in every sorority. There are likely fun/boring girls in every group. All we're saying is that when you go through recruitment, you will probably hear your friends talking about some of these stereotypes. They might say one sorority is really cool and fun, but when you meet them you may not like them and vice versa. So just keep an open mind and judge for yourself and everything will work out. And be prepared for dissapointment. You might like a house who doesn't like you or vice versa, that's why we say give each house a chance.