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Originally Posted by gagirl90
Should I go to nationals about this or something??
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No. The only way they could see what you say is happening is if they come there and live in the house undercover or something. They're not going to come down on a chapter that is looking good on paper because of one dissenter, especially if the chapter has been kind of on the bottom in the past. To be fair, they've probably been getting hammered with the whole "lower tier" label from all sides for ages (as in 10+ years) and are just deciding to fight fire with fire. When you do that, sometimes it takes a while before you can reconcile your emotions and values with your actions.
It honestly sounds like if you had joined a sorority at a small college with a small Greek system you'd be having a wonderful time. However, you choose your college for academics first and the Greek system, well, you get what you get.
Sit down and make a pro and con list of staying in or self-terminating - include things like costs, living situation, etc. If one side's longer than the other, and you STILL want to do the opposite - that's your heart talking. Listen to it. Good luck
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