For the ladies.. "Why aren't you married?" - Page 9

irRHOplaceable · #**121** 06-25-2009, 02:39 AM

I just simply reply, "Because I haven't found the right person yet."

NinjaPoodle · #**122** 07-28-2009, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221

As you can tell, i'm a cynic. but I'm also young, so maybe I have a few years of learning.

yes. give it time.

My reason now? We "have" to wait a year so peeps won't say "you're rushing it"

5Knowledge1913 · #**123** 07-29-2009, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueReign

Ladies,

I am curious as to how others respond. I get asked this question a lot and I get irritated at the person every time. How do you respond when people (mostly men) ask you this.

No eligible takers so far! Most men attracted to me have been locked up at some point in their lives and/or sell drugs and/or aren't well educated.

I mean I am 21, but if what I get now is any indication of things to come, I will not be married and done with kids by 30.

NinjaPoodle · #**124** 03-03-2010, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

yes. give it time.

My reason now? We "have" to wait a year so peeps won't say "you're rushing it"

Wait for it...

agzg · #**125** 03-03-2010, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

Wait for it...

I thought you were planning your wedding, NP?

Lasonja · #**126** 03-03-2010, 03:15 PM

I'm not married yet, because:
1. He's not mature enough for marriage
2. I'm not ready to be married
3. I have to break up with him first before I find a "marriage material" man.

NinjaPoodle · #**127** 03-03-2010, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by agzg

I thought you were planning your wedding, NP?

Nope, though I have been engaged before. I don't remember if I had mentioned that on GC though.

agzg · #**128** 03-03-2010, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

Nope, though I have been engaged before. I don't remember if I had mentioned that on GC though.

Maybe I just assumed that from your fabulous taste in wedding dresses.

rhoyaltempest · #**129** 03-03-2010, 05:30 PM

Just got divorced.

He wanted to be married but didn't want to do the work.

Didn't have his priorities in order.

Tried to stick it out.

Things didn't get any better.

I dumped him.

The end.

Little32 · #**130** 03-03-2010, 05:33 PM

((((rhoyaltempest)))) I am sorry that your marriage didn't work out. But, if your previous posts are any indication, at least you weren't waiting for some man to be the answer to the question of your life. It sounds like you are already on your way to moving on.

I.A.S.K. · #**131** 03-03-2010, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Just got divorced.

He wanted to be married but didn't want to do the work.

Didn't have his priorities in order.

Tried to stick it out.

Things didn't get any better.

I dumped him.

The new BEGINING!

((((((Rhoyaltempest))))))

Is it wrong to say:
Him/Her: Why aren't you married?
Me*channeling Gucci Mane*: B*tch, I might be! *walk quickly away*

rhoyaltempest · #**132** 03-03-2010, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

((((((Rhoyaltempest))))))

Is it wrong to say:
Him/Her: Why aren't you married?
Me*channeling Gucci Mane*: B*tch, I might be! *walk quickly away*

Exactly and that's just what it is, a new beginning. Thank you for the correction. I gave it a good run (almost 6 years) and trust me walking away was harder than I ever imagined. As women we can be so emotional and at first it might feel like you will just die but you won't. Remember that "This too shall pass" and you will be made over stronger and wiser. I knew that at the end of the day, God didn't put me here to be miserable for years to come so I am perfectly at peace with my decision and looking forward to whatever he has in store for me next. I can't wait! It is already done.

rhoyaltempest · #**133** 03-03-2010, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Little32

((((rhoyaltempest)))) I am sorry that your marriage didn't work out. But, if your previous posts are any indication, at least you weren't waiting for some man to be the answer to the question of your life. It sounds like you are already on your way to moving on.

Thank you. I am sooo ready for whatever is coming next (and I don't mean a man necessarily either).

So single ladies (why do I sound like Beyonce? LOL!), I hope you know that you don't need a husband or a boyfriend to be fabulous and I have always said this even before I got married. Do you! Do you! Do you! Buy that house, go on those trips, get the counseling you might need to become a COMPLETE person, get closer to God, your family and friends, start that business, go back to school, etc. and if marriage is in your forecast, it will come find you. If not, oh well and do you anyway.

NinjaPoodle · #**134** 03-04-2010, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Thank you. I am sooo ready for whatever is coming next (and I don't mean a man necessarily either).

So single ladies (why do I sound like Beyonce? LOL!), I hope you know that you don't need a husband or a boyfriend to be fabulous and I have always said this even before I got married. Do you! Do you! Do you! Buy that house, go on those trips, get the counseling you might need to become a COMPLETE person, get closer to God, your family and friends, start that business, go back to school, etc. and if marriage is in your forecast, it will come find you. If not, oh well and do you anyway.

((((((((SOROR*ROYAL*TEMPEST))))))))

I can't add anything to what you said because you said it all.

@ Sistergreek Little32, I agree with what you said.

NinjaPoodle · #**135** 03-05-2010, 03:34 AM

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Originally Posted by agzg

Maybe I just assumed that from your fabulous taste in wedding dresses.

Awww thanks!