She may have had "a very active social like that now doesn't exist", but there are other ways to have an active social life in college without being part of the Greek system. At least that's what we tell people that don't get bids, right?????
Yes, everyone's different and I can tell she is bring very respectful. I'm just saying, simply because she's not in a sorority now, her social life won't disappear. She won't stay in every night, make no friends, and not go to any more parties for the rest of her college career. My social life was extremely full after transferring, and while I did miss KD and all my sisters had to offer, I was happy and fulfilled and didn't pine away for Greek life every single time I saw someone in their letters. Hell, in fact, being a KD made me somewhat of a novelty, as I became friends with a lot of girls in different houses because they thought me being in some sorority they knew nothing about was kinda cool.
Again, I know, everyone's different. Just my take.
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