Social Affiliates?
 

I am an initiated member of a Panhellenic sorority, and I transferred schools to one that does not have my sorority. I KNOW the I cannot become a full sister of any other sorority, BUT I have heard about something called 'social affiliates' and I was wondering if anyone had any information. It would really help me out.

Thanks :)

This existed back in the 80s...but any chapter who did it today would be on very thin ice with risk management (even if it was a non-alcoholic event). The rules regarding insurance, etc are just so much more stringent nowadays.

I also think it was more fraternities than sororities. Even back then, if a random KD would have asked if she could come to our mixers, unless she was a chapter sister's bio sister AND everyone else LOVED her, I think we would have fallen over ourselves tossing her out the door. Guys are way more laid back with stuff like that.

Your situation sucks, but if you choose to stay at your new school, your NPC career is done. Period.

Of course, if your school has local sororities, you can join one of those. I would be straight up with them about your KD affiliation, though. The last thing you want is for them to find out from someone other than you.

The other thing you could do is reach out to your local alum chapter. It will be a different experience all together (maybe 1 event a month?), but at least you would have some interaction with sisters.

Your situation sucks, but if you choose to stay at your new school, your NPC career is done. Period. 33girl

her collegiate experience is over, but her alumnae experience is just beginning.

It seems to have disappeared along with the "orphaned Greek" groups. Often, larger campuses would have an organization (or two -- one male and one female) for transfers who were Greek but whose chapters weren't on campus. For purposes of things like Greek week and social events, the orphan Greek group was treated like another chapter.

I realize that she has years and years to be an alum, but I honestly think that's cold comfort right now. She wants collegiate activities, not alum activities. Even if it's a young alum group (25 and under) they're at a totally different place in life and in the sorority experience. It's sort of like saying "you can always AI" except she's already I'ed.

My Dad tells me that back in the 60's Social Affiliates were fairly common among fraternities and while less so among sororities it was not unusual.
Social affiliates were never allowed to attend ritual or private meetings that were considered confidential but were welcome at any other functions. There were normally two types of social affiliate. One was a student at a nearby university that did not have a greek system or did not have a chapter of the fraternity that the SA wanted. The un-affiliated SA would pay a sort of reduced dues like a pro-rata for parties and events and was welcome at just about anything except as mentioned above. Sometimes the un-affiliated SA would be initiated right after graduation if he had been considered a good supporter and participent. While he was not a brother he was seen as a sort of "first cousin" and could become a full brother if the chapter wanted him and International gave its blessing for initiation after graduation.
The other type was more like what you describe. Someone who was Greek but had no chapter either at their current university or any nearby university. This was a more informal thing and the affiliated SA could be given a standing invitation to hang at the house and attend parties and such. This type of SA paid no pro-rata dues but could kick in to feed the kitty for any function's expenses.
Dad said that he got the impression that among sororities it was often, but not always, a deal where girls who had known each other in High School or had some other connection would be be invited by their old friends to visit and after a few such visits if the rest of the chapter was comfortable with the visitor she would be encouraged to be an affiliate. Not unlike a COB process but not leading to initiation.
In any case, the SA status was not the norm and the huge majority of members entered under the usual procedure.

Wise people contact their regional and/or national entity to ask such questions instead of asking Greekchat. Research whether or not a such thing happens for YOUR organization. Even if it is lesser known or less common, that doesn't mean it is formally forbidden. If it is formally and/or informally forbidden, find that out and try to understand why.

NPHC orgs often have members from other campuses attend collegiate chapter events if it is not against chapter or national policies (national trumps chapter) and there are no risk management issues associated with it. For campuses where the NPHC org does not exist, it is not uncommon for members to find a nearby collegiate AND graduate chapter to continue some level of activity and keep their "presence in the pipeline." The particulars depend on the organization's policies and procedures.

The thing is, it really would not be up to KD, but up to the sorority she would be "socially affiliating" with. The only larger entity that could give her an answer is national Panhellenic, who could access the policies of all 26 NPC groups to tell her if any of them permit this.

She's talking about going to mixers and other sisterhood functions. Even if it was something completely non alcoholic - say, taking a bus off campus to go and help with a Special Olympics event - the insurance for the groups only insures members of that organization. She could never be a member, therefore if the bus wrecked and there was a nonmember riding, it could throw the whole insurance policy into jeopardy.

Ummmmm...she's talking about just affiliating with any NPC group just for shits and giggles? I don't get the point of doing that.

Hmmm. I thought she was talking about finding another KD collegiate chapter that is not on her campus. Like, transferring to XYZ College that doesn't have a KD chapter and finding nearby ABC College that has a KD chapter that she can be socially affiliated with (but not be financially active because she doesn't attend that college)

The same exact thing happened to me. I pledged KD, then went to a school with no KD chapter. However, there was a school that was somewhat nearby (about 25 minutes driving time) that had a chapter and they were all too willing to involve me. Granted, I didn't go to their formals or participate in their Greek Week, but I was lucky enough to have great sisterhood extended to me. Have you looked into that possibility? Are there any other schools nearby?

This is awesome and that's what I thought the OP was asking about. :)

The point is that when you've been Greek, to transfer to another school that doesn't have your sorority and having to watch all the other Greeks having fun while you sit on the sidelines is not fun.

I'm sure a nearby KD chapter not on her campus would welcome her, as in AnotherKD's example, although it really depends where her new school is.

I'm thinking from an NPHC perspective, so pardon me because I don't see the conundrum here.