This existed back in the 80s...but any chapter who did it today would be on very thin ice with risk management (even if it was a non-alcoholic event). The rules regarding insurance, etc are just so much more stringent nowadays.
I also think it was more fraternities than sororities. Even back then, if a random KD would have asked if she could come to our mixers, unless she was a chapter sister's bio sister AND everyone else LOVED her, I think we would have fallen over ourselves tossing her out the door. Guys are way more laid back with stuff like that.
Your situation sucks, but if you choose to stay at your new school, your NPC career is done. Period.
Of course, if your school has local sororities, you can join one of those. I would be straight up with them about your KD affiliation, though. The last thing you want is for them to find out from someone other than you.
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