Social Affiliates?

[KSUViolet06]

I have never heard of this and I have been a sorority member (and national volunteer) for quite some time.

What did this person tell you about this supposed "social affiliation?"

That you can attend social events of a sorority you're not a member of because you transferred to a school without your sorority?

If so, that is false.

As far as my sorority goes, socials are for the members of that chapter who pay dues.

I'd imagine that the same is true for the other 25 NPCs as well.

[33girl]

This existed back in the 80s...but any chapter who did it today would be on very thin ice with risk management (even if it was a non-alcoholic event). The rules regarding insurance, etc are just so much more stringent nowadays.

I also think it was more fraternities than sororities. Even back then, if a random KD would have asked if she could come to our mixers, unless she was a chapter sister's bio sister AND everyone else LOVED her, I think we would have fallen over ourselves tossing her out the door. Guys are way more laid back with stuff like that.

Your situation sucks, but if you choose to stay at your new school, your NPC career is done. Period.

Of course, if your school has local sororities, you can join one of those. I would be straight up with them about your KD affiliation, though. The last thing you want is for them to find out from someone other than you.

[FSUZeta]

Your situation sucks, but if you choose to stay at your new school, your NPC career is done. Period. 33girl

her collegiate experience is over, but her alumnae experience is just beginning.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by 33girl

This existed back in the 80s...but any chapter who did it today would be on very thin ice with risk management (even if it was a non-alcoholic event).

It seems to have disappeared along with the "orphaned Greek" groups. Often, larger campuses would have an organization (or two -- one male and one female) for transfers who were Greek but whose chapters weren't on campus. For purposes of things like Greek week and social events, the orphan Greek group was treated like another chapter.

[33girl]

I realize that she has years and years to be an alum, but I honestly think that's cold comfort right now. She wants collegiate activities, not alum activities. Even if it's a young alum group (25 and under) they're at a totally different place in life and in the sorority experience. It's sort of like saying "you can always AI" except she's already I'ed.

[dekeguy]

My Dad tells me that back in the 60's Social Affiliates were fairly common among fraternities and while less so among sororities it was not unusual.
Social affiliates were never allowed to attend ritual or private meetings that were considered confidential but were welcome at any other functions. There were normally two types of social affiliate. One was a student at a nearby university that did not have a greek system or did not have a chapter of the fraternity that the SA wanted. The un-affiliated SA would pay a sort of reduced dues like a pro-rata for parties and events and was welcome at just about anything except as mentioned above. Sometimes the un-affiliated SA would be initiated right after graduation if he had been considered a good supporter and participent. While he was not a brother he was seen as a sort of "first cousin" and could become a full brother if the chapter wanted him and International gave its blessing for initiation after graduation.
The other type was more like what you describe. Someone who was Greek but had no chapter either at their current university or any nearby university. This was a more informal thing and the affiliated SA could be given a standing invitation to hang at the house and attend parties and such. This type of SA paid no pro-rata dues but could kick in to feed the kitty for any function's expenses.
Dad said that he got the impression that among sororities it was often, but not always, a deal where girls who had known each other in High School or had some other connection would be be invited by their old friends to visit and after a few such visits if the rest of the chapter was comfortable with the visitor she would be encouraged to be an affiliate. Not unlike a COB process but not leading to initiation.
In any case, the SA status was not the norm and the huge majority of members entered under the usual procedure.