Sad recruitment story

[karmelgirl]

Yes, I agree that it would have been better to go to the 2 parties she was invited back to, but between the disappointment on her invitation list and the huge disappointment earlier in the day she could just not get the tears to stop flowing.

I guess I am looking for someone to tell me she is not alone, this happens more then you know. I just have never really heard of this happening before. I never considered this to be a possibility and neither did she. Is this as rare as I think it is, or is it common, or is the reality somewhere in the middle?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by karmelgirl

I guess I am looking for someone to tell me she is not alone, this happens more then you know. I just have never really heard of this happening before. I never considered this to be a possibility and neither did she. Is this as rare as I think it is, or is it common, or is the reality somewhere in the middle?

Not a rarity. It definitely happens. Not every girl gets invited back to her top choices all the time. Most girls will end up with a BID at the end, but that does not mean they didn't experience cuts at some point in the process. More often than not, you're going to get cut by someone before it's over.