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Originally Posted by christiangirl
THIS. One day, my future mister and I will have things we want and things we need. My "needs" shouldn't be funding tickets to the Lakers game. Just like his "needs" should not fund my day at the spa. If you can share EVERYTHING in life and make that work, then that's great. If money is your breaking point and you just can't bring yourself to fuse those, then that's fine if you both feel that way. This is just a third option and I hope whoever I marry agrees.
ETA: Well put, Dee.  |
I had a convo with an acquaintance years ago that further solidified how I already felt about joint and separate accounts.
She really wanted a new pair of shoes for the Winter and her husband didn't think it was a necessary expense. She kept petitioning to him and trying to get his approval/clearance so she could go clearance rack shoe shopping. It made me cringe.
Of course having a lot of money in their joint account can prevent such penny penching; and having a spouse who isn't such a hard knock could as well. But, I prefer avoiding that altogether.
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