Black Sorority Rules

[DSTRen13]

Originally Posted by tha411hun

I am interested in joining a sorority and i know few classmates that are in sororities but I am afraid to ask them how to get into one. I heard that you weren't supposed to tell people, especially not those already in a sorority, which one you would like to be in. I don't see any flyers around campus or anything about interest meetings regarding them, so how do I show them that I am interested?

Stop worrying so much about how to show a sorority how interested you are, and start worrying about how to make them interested in you. No sorority - NPHC, NPC, or otherwise - gives a hoot how interested you are in their org if you aren't someone they want as a member. So worry about that.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by DSTRen13

Stop worrying so much about how to show a sorority how interested you are, and start worrying about how to make them interested in you. No sorority - NPHC, NPC, or otherwise - gives a hoot how interested you are in their org if you aren't someone they want as a member. So worry about that.

I completely agree. Once you have yourself together (good grades, community service, active on campus, etc.) and have done your research, show your interest or they may become interested in you by attending their programs and events, as many as you are able to attend so they can get familiar with seeing your face, try to get to know some of them, and attend an interest meeting.

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by DSTRen13

Stop worrying so much about how to show a sorority how interested you are, and start worrying about how to make them interested in you. No sorority - NPHC, NPC, or otherwise - gives a hoot how interested you are in their org if you aren't someone they want as a member. So worry about that.

This is some of the BEST advice I read on this site in a while. *applause*

[CutiePie2000]

Originally Posted by DSTRen13

Stop worrying so much about how to show a sorority how interested you are, and start worrying about how to make them interested in you. No sorority - NPHC, NPC, or otherwise - gives a hoot how interested you are in their org if you aren't someone they want as a member. So worry about that.

This advice also applies extremely well to those who would want to be alumnae initiated in an NPC group.