My Fall Recruitment Thread

[Ggirl617]

Ok, so I am anonymous. I still can't work through my story then? Dug myself a hole? Except for being ungrateful and not thinking through the anonymity I really don't see what I've done wrong. Again, I'm sorry if I've upset anyone.

[kddani]

Originally Posted by Ggirl617

Ok, so I am anonymous. I still can't work through my story then? Dug myself a hole? Except for being ungrateful and not thinking through the anonymity I really don't see what I've done wrong. Again, I'm sorry if I've upset anyone.

As someone said, work out these issues in a diary or with a close friend or family member, or hell, even one of the eyeliner sisters that maybe you've talked to more than others or a fellow pledge. Here is just not appropriate. GC is not a therapy board for new members of sororities trying to work out their issues. Yes, we give advice, but your situation is well above and beyond that point.

If you want to continue to vent and "work through" your issues here, then be prepared for the feedback, particularly the negative, that you're going to receive. If you don't want that kind of feedback, then another, more private forum is much more appropriate.

[Ggirl617]

Originally Posted by kddani

As someone said, work out these issues in a diary or with a close friend or family member, or hell, even one of the eyeliner sisters that maybe you've talked to more than others or a fellow pledge. Here is just not appropriate. GC is not a therapy board for new members of sororities trying to work out their issues. Yes, we give advice, but your situation is well above and beyond that point.

If you want to continue to vent and "work through" your issues here, then be prepared for the feedback, particularly the negative, that you're going to receive. If you don't want that kind of feedback, then another, more private forum is much more appropriate.

I just don't understand why all the feedback is negative. There are positive and negative aspects to sorority life and I'm only allowed to mention one? I don't personally agree with that, but if those are the rules of this forum, I THOROUGHLY apologize and I will stop. I personally don't believe my situation is so extraordinary, I just think I'm more vocal about it than others. I explained why I chose this place to talk, and if I was being inappropriate I wanted the moderators to explain why and I would abstain.