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Does anyone else think the OP lied about being a legacy and they found out and dropped her b.c of that? just reading between the lines, not sure why anyone would ask something like that.
Also to the OP, maybe what you find "desperate" is actually the organization's love and enthusiasm for their chapter. They probably feel you would be a great fit and are conveying that in being overly enthused. I think you should think about the reasons you want to join a sorority, if you only want to join the "top" house or the house with the prettiest girls etc.. you should know that as you get older these things matter less and less. Try to look at the big picture and what lifetime sisterhood and bonds mean. Trust me when I tell you that it is not about who wins homecoming, or does socials with the best fraternities. Every sorority stands for something much deeper and it's the life lessons and rituals that make you want to be a better person that really matter.
Good luck but I think you need to change your attitude and figure out what you really want.
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