A few questions...help please?

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Originally Posted by jf_eighty9

1. So today is the second night of rush at our school. Last night, we vistied 9 houses and narrowed them down to 7. When I got the houses who I was supposed to visit, I got two of the ones which I was iffy about and the two which I eliminated the night before. Please also note that the two I didn't want were REALLY desperate for girls to join (one is a new one and the other I just didn't feel a "connection" with). I was wondering something. I want to want until tomorrow night to see if the two I liked call me back. If they don't, should I drop it and re-rush next year? (Preferance Night and Bid Night aren't for a few more days.)

2. Exactly how do the sororities call back the girls? When I visited the houses, the RC would give us papers with our names and recruitment ID # on it. When we were paired up with a girl from the sorority we were visiting, we would give her paper and she would do something with it. What do they do with the paper? And how do they decide?

3. If you listed yourself as legacy, do they actually check it? I'm a legacy in two of the sororities. Both of which I was dropped from and I found it weird because I thought I had a connection with one of them.

I appreciate all the help I can get with these questions.

By the way, my school is UC Irvine (UCI).

There's that "I didn't feel a connection" crap, again! Stop with that bad attitude and thinking you are "too good" for these other houses that were supposedly "desperate" for a girl. I wish those chapters luck in finding incredible women who don't have your attitude.

Don't just drop out. Why are there so many girls coming on the board now saying they want to drop out? Is this the generation that is next in line? I can't even imagine just dropping out because I didn't get all the chapters back I wanted. If you really care about being Greek (and you need to think about what being Greek even means-it isn't just popularity and parties) then you will give every chapter an equal shot. If you don't-I will not feel bad for you because you were too much of a snob to accept your bid and give those women the opportunity to show you what great things can come out of being in an NPC.

P.S. I doubt those girls were "desperate"-I just think you need to get over yourself.