What did I do wrong?

[MaggieXi]

Originally Posted by tifferini

I understand what you're saying. But isn't choosing the sorority supposed to be concentrating on what I want?

Also, I had a 3.86 high school GPA. I was ASB president and captain of the volleyball team. I was the main organizer for fundraisers of the charities our school supports. I volunteered at an animal shelter. I did school choir.

It's just a little confusing, and I admit that I am disappointed.

Its not just what you want. Its what the sororities want too. Hence, the "mutual" part of mutual selection.

It sounds like you are accomplished for your high school, but are you average compared to other PNMs going through? This is something to consider. There is a really good thread around here somewhere that talks about being in high school as a big fish in a little pond vs being a small or average fish in a big pond in college.

The membership selection process is private - very private. Noone can tell you why you were cut or what/if anything you did wrong. At this point, you've chosen not to be greek. You need to dust yourself off and move on, grow a little, and get adjusted to college. If after a semester or a year you still want to be greek and are willing to take on the risk of going through and getting cut again, then go for it.