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Hey there!
I would stick it out a while longer. Girls go through a whole range of difficulties when they are in their new member period.
Some girls feel right at home right away and they never look back
Some girls are upset that their house isnt their first choice but then come to love it and never look back
Some girls feel really great about it, then a few weeks into it, start to worry they arent fitting in, they either make friends and do fine or fade away and drop
Some girls go through the whole new member period, but when suddenly all the attention is off of them as actives, they feel like they dont fit in
Some girls take weeks, but they eventually make friends and fit right in
There is a whole range, remember, even though initially you feel like "Oh! I have 60 - 100 new friends now!" you still have to make the effort, because in the end, these girls dont know you all that well and you dont know them, you have to make the effort to go out with them, hang out, etc....they might be making a lot of effort while youre a NM, but you gotta reciprocate.
Honestly, if you really feel awful, then drop before you get initiated, but I would seriously try hard. I always feel that the bid you get is how things fell together and its fate. They wanted you, that is an honor, and often times, there is no "grass on the other side". If you tried again, you there is a good chance you wouldn't get into the sorority that you wanted...the other girls might not understand why you would drop your first house!
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