Recruitment at a small Alabama School

[KSUViolet06]

A couple of thoughts:

There is no guarantee that a PNM is going to get her first choice.

When you rank after Pref and submit a Pref card, you are essentially agreeing that you would accept a bid from EITHER of your choices.

If she was not interested in D, and knew that she'd rather not be Greek than be in D, she should have left them off of her list.

I know that alot of schools tell PNMs not to do that, but it is ok to do it if you know that you are not going to take a bid from your 2nd choice.

Also, alot of PNMs think that by ranking a chapter low, it means they shouldn't have to return to them. All you're doing is ranking them, which means they can and will show up on your schedule everyday. You're not choosing not to go back to them (if that makes any sense).

In any event, I know you say that you can't "move on" but it's probably best that you should. If she's ok, let it go.