Is she pregnant?

Xanthus · #1 08-15-2009, 05:13 AM

1st off, fuck you troll buster. I'm not a fucking troll. You seem to think anyone with under 100 posts is a troll, when in reality you're the only dipshit on here trolling. I knew what I was getting myself into when I started this thread, but this is serious and I don't need you posting your stupid jokes. No one gives a shit about your stupid troll busting, you fake moderator stupid fuck. stfu or gtfo!

I know a lot of what I said doesn't make any sense, but right now this is all new to me. I know, I fucked up, but I have to put that behind me now, and move on. KSU Violet I already said "I brought this on myself", post your thoughts, but I don't need you to repeat it back to me. Pretty boy, to answer your question, I'm not ready to be a parent, (if you're not already) are you? If you and others were in my shoes, you would have doubts too. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. I pretty much know it's my kid, but I also know people who thought the kid was theirs and it wasn't.

Kevin and the rest who have given good advice to me, thanks a lot for your support. I made an appointment with an attorney for Wednesday and I'm getting a physical this Monday. I'll keep you guys posted. Probably via pm because some of you aren't being very helpful at all. Kevin and 33girl thanks again.

Munchkin03 · #2 08-15-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Xanthus

I know a lot of what I said doesn't make any sense, but right now this is all new to me. I know, I fucked up, but I have to put that behind me now, and move on. KSU Violet I already said "I brought this on myself", post your thoughts, but I don't need you to repeat it back to me. Pretty boy, to answer your question, I'm not ready to be a parent, (if you're not already) are you? If you and others were in my shoes, you would have doubts too. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. I pretty much know it's my kid, but I also know people who thought the kid was theirs and it wasn't.

Kevin and the rest who have given good advice to me, thanks a lot for your support. I made an appointment with an attorney for Wednesday and I'm getting a physical this Monday. I'll keep you guys posted. Probably via pm because some of you aren't being very helpful at all. Kevin and 33girl thanks again.

Good luck! It sounds like you're on a good path with getting an attorney and a physical.

DrPhil · #3 08-15-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03

Good luck! It sounds like you're on a good path with getting an attorney and a physical.

Yes. Now he needs to leave GC out of the equation. He has posted enough about this.

SydneyK · #4 08-15-2009, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil

Yes. Now he needs to leave GC out of the equation. He has posted enough about this.

I'll agree that it's time for him to leave GC out of the equation, but not necessarily for the same reason as you. He's going to continue to get "lessons" from people who have no idea what it's like to be in his shoes. He's getting bombarded by negativity at a time in his life when what he needs most is support. He needs to leave the judgmental GC to find people who will understand that he made a mistake, that he's owned that mistake, and is trying to find a way to come to terms with it.

Xanthus, seriously, good luck with everything. Being a parent is a hard and thankless job (well, it's thankless in the beginning anyway), and there will definitely be days that will try your every last nerve. But, it's also a very rewarding job, and one that, even on its worst days, has excellent benefits. I hope you and mom-to-be can, at the very least, work things out so that you're civil with each other. I'm not sure what your next step is regarding a relationship with her, but even if you're not together, you'll need to be able to communicate well and work together for the baby's benefit.

DrPhil · #5 08-15-2009, 01:13 PM

Actually, when I say he should stop posting, it is for two reasons:

1) We didn't need to know in the first place because...we just didn't...and he could've figured this out without GC.

and

2) When you invite people into your life, on the internet and in real life, you are opening yourself up to informed, uninformed, good, and bad responses. There's no screening process. People, particularly strangers and usernames, aren't obligated to be positive and supportive.

PrettyBoy · #6 08-16-2009, 03:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Xanthus

1st off, fuck you troll buster. I'm not a fucking troll. You seem to think anyone with under 100 posts is a troll, when in reality you're the only dipshit on here trolling. I knew what I was getting myself into when I started this thread, but this is serious and I don't need you posting your stupid jokes. No one gives a shit about your stupid troll busting, you fake moderator stupid fuck. stfu or gtfo!

I know a lot of what I said doesn't make any sense, but right now this is all new to me. I know, I fucked up, but I have to put that behind me now, and move on. KSU Violet I already said "I brought this on myself", post your thoughts, but I don't need you to repeat it back to me. Pretty boy, to answer your question, I'm not ready to be a parent, (if you're not already) are you? If you and others were in my shoes, you would have doubts too. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. I pretty much know it's my kid, but I also know people who thought the kid was theirs and it wasn't.

Kevin and the rest who have given good advice to me, thanks a lot for your support. I made an appointment with an attorney for Wednesday and I'm getting a physical this Monday. I'll keep you guys posted. Probably via pm because some of you aren't being very helpful at all. Kevin and 33girl thanks again.

I guess this isn't a joke. My bad.

@ the small bolded quote.

@ the big bolded quote, I agree with the first part. You're right, you messed up, but it's a mistake that you still can rebound from. Like you said, now you have to put it behind you, but at the same time be the best father you can be and give this child enough guidance and support to be the best person he/she can be by giving him/her the tools he/she needs to succeed in the world, a strong faith, and a good education.

No, I'm not a father, but I know what commitment and responsibility are. I agree, not everybody is cut out to be a parent, but you knew before you laid down with this woman, that you didn't want to be a father, at least not at this time in your life. Don't compare yourself to me because I wouldn't put myself in your shoes, if I knew that I wasn't able to accept parenting as a lifetime commitment. I wouldn't take a risk by having sex especially with a woman I don't have anything in common with or don't want to be with not only physically, but emotionally and spiritually as well. Based on your post and other posts I've read of yours, it was all about the physical for you, as it is for many, and that's what I think is sad. This is where you and I differ. My advice to you now is to be there for this child, because being there can make all the difference in the world.

Good luck and stop screwing women you don't want to be with, and invest in some condoms.

AKA_Monet · #7 08-24-2009, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Xanthus

I know a lot of what I said doesn't make any sense, but right now this is all new to me. I know, I fucked up, but I have to put that behind me now, and move on. KSU Violet I already said "I brought this on myself", post your thoughts, but I don't need you to repeat it back to me. Pretty boy, to answer your question, I'm not ready to be a parent, (if you're not already) are you? If you and others were in my shoes, you would have doubts too. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. I pretty much know it's my kid, but I also know people who thought the kid was theirs and it wasn't.

Kevin and the rest who have given good advice to me, thanks a lot for your support. I made an appointment with an attorney for Wednesday and I'm getting a physical this Monday. I'll keep you guys posted. Probably via pm because some of you aren't being very helpful at all. Kevin and 33girl thanks again.

Sweetheart, all your posts and information can be tracked by IP Address. That means if the woman you impregnated gets a hold of this stuff, she could use it against you. If you don't care about that, then good luck! If you do, well, you can seek supermoderator support and MAYBE it can be archived...

Anyhow, after getting your lawyer, you could consider seeking family counseling as to how to negotiate a parenting relationship--even if your woman does NOT go because you will be dealing with your custody agreement preferably with a social worker. The reason is your child support agreement you pay will be equitable to your child and how you spend your time to see your offspring.

SydneyK · #8 08-17-2009, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Troll Buster

You're either one of three things.

1. You're either some sick fuck with some deep seeded issues
2. You're someone's sockpuppet and let me add the worst fucking sockpuppet I've ever seen
3. You're an attention whore

Pick one.

Gee, TrollBuster, are you sure you're not talking about yourself there?

Kevin · #9 08-17-2009, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by SydneyK

Gee, TrollBuster, are you sure you're not talking about yourself there?

That's what I was thinking.

Trollbuster is trolling in every sense of the word.