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Old 05-15-2009, 12:15 AM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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Welcome to GC sister!

I'm not one to sugarcoat things.

My answers:

If you are not interested in a PNM, simply tell them "Thank you for your interest, but we will not be extending you a bid." If they don't get a bid, you do not owe a PNM any explanation other than that.

If she asks why, simply let her know that those reasons are part of the membership selection process and as such are private. Simple as that.

I would also suggest that sisters stop inviting this woman to COB events.

Also, if she is misrepresenting herself as a member, I suggest having someone send her a very straightforward email stating that she is not a member of the chapter.

Problems solved!

I hope this helps.

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Old 05-18-2009, 05:38 PM
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Welcome to GC sister!

I'm not one to sugarcoat things.

My answers:

If you are not interested in a PNM, simply tell them "Thank you for your interest, but we will not be extending you a bid." If they don't get a bid, you do not owe a PNM any explanation other than that.

If she asks why, simply let her know that those reasons are part of the membership selection process and as such are private. Simple as that.

I would also suggest that sisters stop inviting this woman to COB events.

Also, if she is misrepresenting herself as a member, I suggest having someone send her a very straightforward email stating that she is not a member of the chapter.

Problems solved!

I hope this helps.

From one "sigma" to another, couldn't said it better myself.

It is important that you noted that your interests/prospectives can reflect your org similarly to your actives. Feel free to reiterate that to the sisters who keep inviting her to COB.
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