Room for Individual Growth?

[FunGirl123]

I am not expecting anyone to agree with me. I just wanted to see if anyone has ever felt similar feelings. Just the whole process is making me feel like I'm some little girl that needs to be taken care of.

and to just to clarify again : I do not mind looking presentable in a BUSINESS setting. but not when im at school with my friends/sisters.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by FunGirl123

and to just to clarify again : I do not mind looking presentable in a BUSINESS setting. but not when im at school with my friends/sisters.

Chapter meeting = business meeting

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by FunGirl123

and to just to clarify again : I do not mind looking presentable in a BUSINESS setting. but not when im at school with my friends/sisters.

Just an FYI -- this reads to me like "I don't mind showing respect in a business setting by dressing appropriately, but I don't want to have to show respect to my sisters/friends/sorority/a fraternity hosting a party at which I am a guest."

If you were always having to dress up, I could see your point, but the only examples you've given are chapter meetings and parties at which you are a guest -- two occassions when it is not at all unreasonable to expect people to dress appropriately. How does all of this make you feel like your sisters are demanding that you be perfect, or to use your first phrase, how is it keeping you from growing as an individual? I'm just not getting it.