Start befriending the girls who sit close to you in your classes (this works best in smaller classes or in classes that are in your major.) Smile, and ask a particular girl about what will be on the next quiz or when the next paper is due. Follow up with an observation about something currrent on campus and a question, i.e. "Wow, I had a hard time focusing on this homework assignment with all the excitement about the NCAA championships. My dorm is in an uproar. Is yours?" etc.
Grab a group of friends and start going to every party that you hear about. Practice walking up to people, smiling, and saying, "Hi, I'm [name]." Start with conventional questions (dorm/hometown/major, etc.) then go to an observation and question. Practice, practice, practice until you can make friendly conversation with a brick wall (LOL!) Ask people about themselves, and try to find a way to make them laugh. They will love you for it!
Also, set aside study time each day and join a club or two. Then give recruitment another go. Good luck to you!
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