Physical appearances you refuse to date.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by deltadevil

even the ones i havent spent my time in it seems that alot of black males like to dress in baggy clothing with lots of jewelry and fitted caps. I know i am one of those type of people. I just want to know why she wouldnt date a person who dresses like that?

bruh...what area are you hanging in?

**why am I coming back to this thread??**

Siiigh....

Ok...Deltadevil...about how old are you? In your 20s?

It's common that guys your age (heck most ages really) will do what they can to "fit in" or "keep up". That's just natural.

BUT...at a certain point you come to realize that you have to change your game if you want a certain type of company to be around you.

If you want ebtter jobs and a better lifestyle, then you eventually have to switch up what you are doing to get those things.

I eman if you wanna wear your Tims and your saggy off the ass pant's...that's fine ...as long as you realize you are what you attract.

Another thing you will eventaully realize, as so many of us do when we enter 'real life' working world, some of those labels and shyte like that eventally play out and you have to start growing up and dressing FOR YOU and not so much to impress everyone else.

It's nothing wrong with looking nice but by God, please be able to recoginze when to leave the 'thug' at home!

I look at some of you youngins out here now and wonder why some of you can't do somethign so simple AS pull the pants up? LOL

And the jewelry thing...maybe it's a regional thing now as most people here in my area don't floss and flash the gold like they did back in the 90's but there is a way to be subtle about it without being obnoxious with it because I SWEAR it was nothing worse than seeing someone with more gold in thier mouth than change in their and $1000 worth of clothing on, still catching the bus.

[deltadevil]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

bruh...what area are you hanging in?

**why am I coming back to this thread??**

Im surfing with the miami people, but like the other person said I am young so I am speaking on what i see young people wear

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

**why am I coming back to this thread??**

You're here because you want a young dude to tell you that you need to dress like "normal black men" do.

Say it ain't so!!!

[deltadevil]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

You're here because you want a young dude to tell you that you need to dress like "normal black men" do.

Say it ain't so!!!

Yes this is Mr Bentley of the Ghetto speaking.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

You're here because you want a young dude to tell you that you need to dress like "normal black men" do.

Say it ain't so!!!

I will be damned...

deltadevil I added an ETA to my post.

I had sumn to get off of my chest

and BTW that is not what 'normal black people do'.

It's better if you say 'people in my area'.

What's normal for you is not normal for me.

Gosh...this is going almost the same place I went a few weeks ago breaking down "Bapes" to someone...carry on.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

bruh...what area are you hanging in?

**why am I coming back to this thread??**

Siiigh....

Ok...Deltadevil...about how old are you? In your 20s?

It's common that guys your age (heck most ages really) will do what they can to "fit in" or "keep up". That's just natural.

BUT...at a certain point you come to realize that you have to change your game if you want a certain type of company to be around you.

If you want ebtter jobs and a better lifestyle, then you eventually have to switch up what you are doing to get those things.

I eman if you wanna wear your Tims and your saggy off the ass pant's...that's fine ...as long as you realize you are what you attract.

Another thing you will eventaully realize, as so many of us do when we enter 'real life' working world, some of those labels and shyte like that eventally play out and you have to start growing up and dressing FOR YOU and not so much to impress everyone else.

It's nothing wrong with looking nice but by God, please be able to recoginze when to leave the 'thug' at home!

I look at some of you youngins out here now and wonder why some of you can't do somethign so simple AS pull the pants up? LOL

And the jewelry thing...maybe it's a regional thing now as most people here in my area don't floss and flash the gold like they did back in the 90's but there is a way to be subtle about it without being obnoxious with it because I SWEAR it was nothing worse than seeing someone with more gold in thier mouth than change in their and $1000 worth of clothing on, still catching the bus.

A good percentage of the dudes in the hood flashing the jewelry are broke and have fake/cheap jewelry or are drug dealers so they are ignant, in general. A byproduct of fatherless homes.

My nephews wear trendy clothes but their parents don't let them come out the house looking like a hoodlums. No drowning in their clothes, baseball caps aren't allowed at school anyway, and no tacky jewelry. Black people don't have to "own" every community phenomenon.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

A good percentage of the dudes in the hood flashing the jewelry are broke and have fake/cheap jewelry or are drug dealers so they are ignant, in general. A byproduct of fatherless homes.

My nephews wear trendy clothes but their parents don't let them come out the house looking like a hoodlums. No drowning in their clothes, baseball caps aren't allowed at school anyway, and no tacky jewelry. Black people don't have to "own" every community phenomenon.

or as my grandmother said, "Don't be a walking advertisement".

[deltadevil]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

A good percentage of the dudes in the hood flashing the jewelry are broke and have fake/cheap jewelry or are drug dealers so they are ignant, in general. A byproduct of fatherless homes.

My nephews wear trendy clothes but their parents don't let them come out the house looking like a hoodlums. No drowning in their clothes, baseball caps aren't allowed at school anyway, and no tacky jewelry. Black people don't have to "own" every community phenomenon.

Well the only peice of jewelry I wear is my high school class ring. Y not let the kids choose how they want to dress themselves?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by deltadevil

Well the only peice of jewelry I wear is my high school class ring.

Then why are you responding?

Originally Posted by deltadevil

Y not let the kids choose how they want to dress themselves?

Because they are kids.

[deltadevil]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Then why are you responding?



Because they are kids.

And kids dont have a opinion on what they wear?

As far as you talking about the people with the jewelry being "a product of fatherless homes and being drug dealers" is really stupid to me. That has nothing to do with how much jewelry a person wears

[DrPhil]

deltadevil <------- ------> logic, reasoning, and the point