Should I tell her?

[DreamPearl1908]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Lime green = no. hell no.

funny... NOT REALLY. Apple Green wasn't avaliable for font color option.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by DreamPearl1908

funny... NOT REALLY. Apple Green wasn't avaliable for font color option.

That's better. We know you're an AKA.

To answer your question, tell her and wash your hands of the situation. If she gets pissed at YOU just tell her to handle the info however she chooses. She may cut you out of her life and that's probably better for your life.

[DreamPearl1908]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

That's better. We know you're an AKA.

To answer your question, tell her and wash your hands of the situation. If she gets pissed at YOU just tell her to handle the info however she chooses. She may cut you out of her life and that's probably better for your life.

still young can't you tell? Thank you for your input its just besides my family (LS's/sorors included) she IS my only friend. I guess you can never move forward unless you leave the past behind... I will take your advice into consideration.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by DreamPearl1908

still young can't you tell? Thank you for your input its just besides my family (LS's/sorors included) she IS my only friend. I guess you can never move forward unless you leave the past behind... I will take your advice into consideration.

She may appreciate the info and she may not appreciate it. Be prepared for both responses.

I say to tell her because you were THERE. It's not just gossip. If the info were to surface later, you'd be hardpressed to explain why you didn't tell her.

[Still BLUTANG]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

She may appreciate the info and she may not appreciate it. Be prepared for both responses.

I say to tell her because you were THERE. It's not just gossip. If the info were to surface later, you'd be hardpressed to explain why you didn't tell her.

i know i'm late to the party, but this is also my philosophy. Kind of like the safety drills from elementary school - if you SEE something, SAY something.

i know how hard/akward it must have been to tell her (and unfortunately i know how humiliating it is to be on the receiving end of that news), so to preserve your friendship just step back.