Should I tell her?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by DreamPearl1908

still young can't you tell? Thank you for your input its just besides my family (LS's/sorors included) she IS my only friend. I guess you can never move forward unless you leave the past behind... I will take your advice into consideration.

She may appreciate the info and she may not appreciate it. Be prepared for both responses.

I say to tell her because you were THERE. It's not just gossip. If the info were to surface later, you'd be hardpressed to explain why you didn't tell her.

[Still BLUTANG]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

She may appreciate the info and she may not appreciate it. Be prepared for both responses.

I say to tell her because you were THERE. It's not just gossip. If the info were to surface later, you'd be hardpressed to explain why you didn't tell her.

i know i'm late to the party, but this is also my philosophy. Kind of like the safety drills from elementary school - if you SEE something, SAY something.

i know how hard/akward it must have been to tell her (and unfortunately i know how humiliating it is to be on the receiving end of that news), so to preserve your friendship just step back.