Rush - What to NOT do or say

[tina93]

The reason why I didnt let the friend know is because I have another friend at a different historically black college and she is President of her chapter. She was the one who informed me that I should keep my interest confidential and for my not to approach members that I am friends with because she said it is looked down apon. As for me not having my paper work together, the chapter at my school did not follow protocal for posting the rush dates early. They posted it on a Tuesday and Rush was four days later on that Friday so that is why I was confused about the paper work and process.This forum is supposed to be helpful but I HAVE FOUND THAT it disccourages instead of informing.....thanks for nothing. I gues I dont want to join if your own greek people cant even follow their RUles that are posted on the organizations web site.

Originally Posted by tina93

The reason why I didnt let the friend know is because I have another friend at a different historically black college and she is President of her chapter. She was the one who informed me that I should keep my interest confidential and for my not to approach members that I am friends with because she said it is looked down apon. As for me not having my paper work together, the chapter at my school did not follow protocal for posting the rush dates early. They posted it on a Tuesday and Rush was four days later on that Friday so that is why I was confused about the paper work and process.This forum is supposed to be helpful but I HAVE FOUND THAT it disccourages instead of informing.....thanks for nothing. I gues I dont want to join if your own greek people cant even follow their RUles that are posted on the organizations web site.

1. So why are you making your interest public on a message board?

2. Waaaaah.

3. What organizations' website? Cite your source, please.

[IlovemyAKA]

Originally Posted by OTW

1. So why are you making your interest public on a message board?

2. Waaaaah.

3. What organizations' website? Cite your source, please.

She's speaking on NPHC. Personally, I didn't wait for a poster to tell me to be prepared. I had already researched eligibilty requirements on the sorority's national site, and knew what I would need prior to the poster's announcement. If she wants to babied and spoon-fed, she's in the wrong place. Members of GC are not at fault because she did not prepare herself.

ETA: I just went back and saw her 1st post. If she knew 2 weeks ahead of time, why was she not prepared? She says that she went to the site, and saw what she needed. Why not begin preparing those documents instead of waiting for someone to tell you when to do it?

I'm with OTW: Waaaaah

Originally Posted by IlovemyAKA

She's speaking on NPHC. Personally, I didn't wait for a poster to tell me to be prepared. I had already researched eligibilty requirements on the sorority's national site, and knew what I would need prior to the poster's announcement. If she wants to babied and spoon-fed, she's in the wrong place. Members of GC are not at fault because she did not prepare herself.

ETA: I just went back and saw her 1st post. If she knew 2 weeks ahead of time, why was she not prepared? She says that she went to the site, and saw what she needed. Why not begin preparing those documents instead of waiting for someone to tell you when to do it?

I'm with OTW: Waaaaah

LOL, I was aware of her NPHC interest.

You know, sometimes I wish NPC recruitment could be a little more like NPHC membership intake.

[IlovemyAKA]

Originally Posted by OTW

LOL, I was aware of her NPHC interest.

You know, sometimes I wish NPC recruitment could be a little more like NPHC membership intake.

Lol--are you sure because then you could draw even more crazies like this one.

Insert more "why don't you just tell me exactly what to do, or better yet, can you do it for me?" lines here.

Although I must admit that based on the weird rush stories thread, you guys get your share of crazies.

[als463]

Originally Posted by tina93

The reason why I didnt let the friend know is because I have another friend at a different historically black college and she is President of her chapter. She was the one who informed me that I should keep my interest confidential and for my not to approach members that I am friends with because she said it is looked down apon. As for me not having my paper work together, the chapter at my school did not follow protocal for posting the rush dates early. They posted it on a Tuesday and Rush was four days later on that Friday so that is why I was confused about the paper work and process.This forum is supposed to be helpful but I HAVE FOUND THAT it disccourages instead of informing.....thanks for nothing. I gues I dont want to join if your own greek people cant even follow their RUles that are posted on the organizations web site.

Maybe you should worry about SCHOOL before anything else. When your grammar is this atrocious, sorority membership should be the least of your worries. If your writing is any indication of your academic achievement-chances are that most organizations would be better off not allowing you to pledge.