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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
Wow...it will be hard for any of us to advise you on how to accept members to your own organization. Do you usually let the president override the desires of the rest of the chapter? If you personally think that your sisters should give this girl another shot, maybe set up some smaller one on one activities with this girl. I would, however, not just give this girl a bid out of pity. You don't want her to feel like she isn't wanted around since technically she isn't! If you feel strongly, make an effort to get your sisters to look again, but don't force her on them!
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Exactly. I've seen this create tension with some chapters. All you can do is try to get your sisters to spend some time with her. But if they do, and they're set in their ways, don't push them. And remember, if this girl doesn't become a member of your sorority, it doesn't mean that you can't still be friends with her.
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