mistreated by my sorority?

[APhiAnna]

Originally Posted by ggforever

It is time to stop being a victim and put forth some effort. If you have a house, there will be some television program that most of the girls will gather to watch on a regular basis. Go over to the house on that night and introduce yourself; then relax and enjoy the show. Stay afterward when the program ends and mingle.

SO TRUE. Really. For my chapter, Gossip Girl and Lost are HUGE, to the point where it would be impossible for a sister to stop by and have people be like, "What is she doing here?". When I was a pledge, Desperate Housewives and Grey's Anatomy were THE things to watch, and any pledge that watched them at the house made so many friends just because they had so many members to talk obsessively about those shows with! Get a feel for what those programs are (and believe me, I think it's Gossip Girl for 95% of the chapters of ANY sorority in America right now) and just show up! I promise it won't be awkward and there will be a bunch of sisters watching.