SO CONFUSED

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by tatafernow

my boyfriend hates that im in the sorority in the first place and it making us have major friction

Never a valid reason to be unhappy with a sorority. All of the other reasons can potentially be remedied, but if you let a boy who has no impact on your future run you, you'll be miserable. And, if he did want to have an impact on your future, he should be supportive of you.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

Never a valid reason to be unhappy with a sorority. All of the other reasons can potentially be remedied, but if you let a boy who has no impact on your future run you, you'll be miserable. And, if he did want to have an impact on your future, he should be supportive of you.

This hits the nail on the head. Make sure your concerns about "values" and "drinking and partying with fraternities" are coming from your heart and not subtle digs from your boyfriend.

There is going to be drama especially in smaller Greek systems (which, w/ a 30 person chapter, I assume yours is) where everyone knows everyone and you're all in each others' pockets 24/7. The positive side of it is you feel closer to everyone and more like a big family.