I'm confused...where do I go from here?

KSUViolet06 · #1 01-23-2009, 12:11 AM

You can't really find out why. Membership Selection info is private, so no one in the fraternity is really going to discuss it with you.

You can re-rush the same fraternity if you want, but I'd say that the odds of getting a bid are not in your favor (if you've already been denied once).

Quicksilver22 · #2 01-23-2009, 01:58 PM

I've heard of at least some occasions when fraternities here have denied a bid because they didn't know someone well enough, but the person stuck around and got a bid in the fall. I know I can't ask them why I didn't get a bid, but how can I gauge their level of interest? (Didn't know me vs. didn't like me?)

LucyAnne17 · #3 01-23-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Quicksilver22

I've heard of at least some occasions when fraternities here have denied a bid because they didn't know someone well enough, but the person stuck around and got a bid in the fall. I know I can't ask them why I didn't get a bid, but how can I gauge their level of interest? (Didn't know me vs. didn't like me?)

If you think that could be the case (and you will really never know) you might as well try again in the fall. What could it hurt? The worst that will happen is they don't extend you a bid, and you're in the same position you are now. But if it's something you really want, try again. Read the recruitment threads. TONS of people have been released and then extended a bid later on.