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Originally Posted by Army Wife'79
It's Sunday, so I have nothing better to do than read all the engagement announcements in my local paper. About 50% of them say "Suzy Smith is a graduate of Tech University where she WAS a member of XYZ sorority" and the other 50% say "Suzy Smith is a graduate of Tech University and she IS a member of XYZ sorority". Arent you a member for life so therefore "IS" would be proper? Your thoughts?
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We've noticed that as well. I think people are right as to the reasons -- not wanting to look like you're still hanging on to college days too much, framing it in terms of being active in the chapter at college, it has become "the form" for wedding write-ups, etc.
I frankly can't remember how it was worded in our wedding write-up. I have seen similar wording in obituaries. ("He was a graduate of Tech University, where he was a member of XYZ Fraternity.") I was careful when I wrote my father's obituary: "He was a graduate of Tech University, where he was initiated into Kappa Sigma Fraternity."
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