How to deal with the chronically late boyfriend?

[SydneyK]

Originally Posted by PANTHERTEKE

I'm that guy. Although its never 2 hours late. Just 1 hour late the most.

Just an hour?

I get pissed off just thinking about my husband making me wait an hour for something we had planned. I mean, that's why you make plans. If you can't be there until 8pm, then don't agree to be there at 7pm. It just seems so rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful. Why would you consistently do that to someone you care about?

(I'm not really directing any of that last paragraph to you, PANTHERTEKE, it's more of a general rant. But, if you can help me understand why the people who do this think it's ok, then that'd be great.)

[PANTHERTEKE]

Originally Posted by SydneyK

But, if you can help me understand why the people who do this think it's ok, then that'd be great.

I have no idea, but maybe it's because my girlfriend puts up with it. I bet if she gave me a really hard time then I would try a lot harder to show up to places on time.

Maybe MTSUGirl and co. aren't giving their boyfriends/husbands enough of a hard time. Bitch your ass off, guys hate bitching and they'll do what it takes to avoid hearing your mouth.