"I love you but I am not IN LOVE with you."

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

You lost me on that one.

A few months is too early.

[I.A.S.K.]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

A few months is too early.

Oh, I thought something like:

You: I'm in love with you
Her: I love you, but Im not in love with you
You: You're in lust not love



but you meant:
Her: Im in love with you
You: You're not in love you're in lust because its only been a few months.

I get it now. Not sure if I agree, but I get it.

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

but you meant:
Her: Im in love with you
You: You're not in love you're in lust because its only been a few months.

That's stupid and arrogant. You can't tell someone else how they feel, just tell them how you feel.

Not mad @ you, IASK, just mad at stupid ass statements like that.

[I.A.S.K.]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

That's stupid and arrogant. You can't tell someone else how they feel, just tell them how you feel.

Not mad @ you, IASK, just mad at stupid ass statements like that.

Thanks for not being mad at me. Im too lurvley for people to be mad at. lol.

I agree with you, that statement is stupid and arrogant in the worst way. If some man told me that I'd go off. I do understand being skeptical of whether someone is being real after only a few months, but I would not degrade someone's feelings by telling them "You're not in love you're in lust". Thats why I had to clarify PB's comment.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

Thanks for not being mad at me. Im too lurvley for people to be mad at. lol.

I agree with you that statement is stupid and arrogant in the worst way. If some man told me that I'd go off. I do understand being skeptical of whether someone is being real after only a few months, but I would not degrade someone's feelings by telling them "You're not in love you're in lust". Thats why I had to clarify PB's comment.

I.A.S.K. I respect your opinion and you're entitled to it, but after only a few months you don't really know him. It's important to know how that person is under stress/pressure, how that person is with money etc. Just getting to know that person takes time. But if you think it's possible I won't say you're wrong, because it is possible for something like that to happen.

[I.A.S.K.]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I.A.S.K. I respect your opinion and you're entitled to it, but after only a few months you don't really know him. It's important to know how that person is under stress/pressure, how that person is with money etc. Just getting to know that person takes time. But if you think it's possible I won't say you're wrong, because it is possible for something like that to happen.

After a few months dating me I will know how you are under stress/pressure, how you treat your family members, what your values are, what your priorties are (if you even have any) and how you are with money as well as many other things. These things can all be found out on dates and in conversations. I agree that getting to know a person takes time and a lot of it, but you don't have to completely know a person to be in love with them. You'd know that you're not in lust if you choose to abstain from sex, are able to discern feelings that are emotional and seperate them from those that are physical and no man looks that good. Not even Boris or Lance or Reggie.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

After a few months dating me I will know how you are under stress/pressure, how you treat your family members, what your values are, what your priorties are (if you even have any) and how you are with money as well as many other things. These things can all be found out on dates and in conversations. I agree that getting to know a person takes time and a lot of it, but you don't have to completely know a person to be in love with them. You'd know that you're not in lust if you choose to abstain from sex, are able to discern feelings that are emotional and seperate them from those that are physical and no man looks that good. Not even Boris or Lance or Reggie.

LMAO @ the end statement!


okay, I see what you mean. I guess I didn't look at it the same way you did. You're right about the sex part. If there is no sex involved, I would have to agree with you here. A lot of people think they know a person after a few years let alone months, and they don't. I'll have to admit I'm one of those guys who used to fall in love quick (or so I thought). I think it was lust though. When I found out my ex was crazy, I fell out of love/lust with her pretty quick, that's why I keep the friendship thing going for a while before I take it further.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

but you meant:
Her: Im in love with you
You: You're not in love you're in lust because its only been a few months.

I get it now. Not sure if I agree, but I get it.

Yup, that's what I meant. I'm sure it can and has happened, but I would feel that it was too early.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Yup, that's what I meant. I'm sure it can and has happened, but I would feel that it was too early.

Or do you mean that she is in love with the 'stick'....yeah....that's it....heh!

[cheerfulgreek]

I don't put a time on my feelings especially when it comes to my feelings for someone else.

lol @ Daemon's post.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

Or do you mean that she is in love with the 'stick'....yeah....that's it....heh!

Dead.

[I.A.S.K.]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

After that post and your response to it, I called my girl up and asked her what she would do if I made a comment like that to her after she told me how she felt about me. At 1st I thought her response would have been the opposite of yours, but she pretty much said the same thing you did. She said she would be very offended. I aksed her why and she reversed the question on me, and I was offended. Hella LOL at you being offended at you! But yeah, that hit home, and I thank you for that.

You're welcomes.

Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

Or do you mean that she is in love with the 'stick'....yeah....that's it....heh!

From what I've seen "stick" is a mighty powerful thing. lol. Hell, it must be if it will make a woman drive in a diaper so she doesn't have to make any stops on her way to get the stick. lol. The problems "IT" causes never cease to amaze me.

[DaemonSeid]

Originally Posted by I.A.S.K.

You're welcomes.


From what I've seen "stick" is a mighty powerful thing. lol. Hell, it must be if it will make a woman drive in a diaper so she doesn't have to make any stops on her way to get the stick. lol. The problems "IT" causes never cease to amaze me.

RIGHT??? LOL