Not getting along with a sister- help!!

[crissy1]

Originally Posted by nittanyalum

Why aren't other sisters or officers noticing this and calling her on it?

There are a couple of us who have been offended by her, or have experienced her rude behavior firsthand, but we've all just kind of shrugged it off. What are we going to do, tattle to the judicial board? That seems a little silly.

[nittanyalum]

Originally Posted by crissy1

There are a couple of us who have been offended by her, or have experienced her rude behavior firsthand, but we've all just kind of shrugged it off. What are we going to do, tattle to the judicial board? That seems a little silly.

You said that official sisterhood events have been planned that you have not been invited to, so my question was whether other sisters or officers have noticed those situations, because that would seem pretty anti-sistery to me.

[crissy1]

Originally Posted by nittanyalum

You said that official sisterhood events have been planned that you have not been invited to, so my question was whether other sisters or officers have noticed those situations, because that would seem pretty anti-sistery to me.

Oh I see. I doubt anyone has really noticed because usually no more than 10ish girls show up, and I'm sure i'm the only one looking at who all got invited (due to my lack of invite). Also, I AM an officer so I guess I could bring it up but I'd rather not.


Also KSUViolet06, I agree with that statement (I dont know how to double quote whoops). I'm sure we'll have a mixer and someone will wear a color she doesn't like and she will decide to hate them too.

Also, remember how I said she wasn't active before? (she spent the last year on probation) She just got a tattoo of our symbol :O She's Susie sisterhood now I guess.
ok that was tacky of me, but I had to say it.

[VandalSquirrel]

You said she's defriended people on Facebook, does that include you? Maybe that's why you didn't get an invite?

Also look at it this way, would you go to the event if you were invited, if someone else planned it? You're upset by her treatment of you, but if you wouldn't go anyway, what is the point in wasting your time being upset? If it isn't an official on the schedule/calendar event, then move on. As my sister nittanyalum pointed out if it is official and you were left out, especially more than once then it is an issue that may be worth mentioning. I highly doubt it is official since it is off campus, alumnae aren't involved, and you said it wasn't coming out of dues.

If she's such a miserable beeyotch, why do you care so much? You say you have other sisters you want to be with, you have a boyfriend, and she is going to move on to a new target. Get off her radar and quit making yourself crazy. If you're not around her and don't appear to give a flying fart, she won't get off on your reaction and she'll be on to the next victim.

[crissy1]

Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel

You said she's defriended people on Facebook, does that include you? Maybe that's why you didn't get an invite?

Also look at it this way, would you go to the event if you were invited, if someone else planned it? You're upset by her treatment of you, but if you wouldn't go anyway, what is the point in wasting your time being upset? If it isn't an official on the schedule/calendar event, then move on. As my sister nittanyalum pointed out if it is official and you were left out, especially more than once then it is an issue that may be worth mentioning. I highly doubt it is official since it is off campus, alumnae aren't involved, and you said it wasn't coming out of dues.

If she's such a miserable beeyotch, why do you care so much? You say you have other sisters you want to be with, you have a boyfriend, and she is going to move on to a new target. Get off her radar and quit making yourself crazy. If you're not around her and don't appear to give a flying fart, she won't get off on your reaction and she'll be on to the next victim.

I know I know. I'm trying not to get upset about it. It's pointless. It really is. I know its stupid because I dont like her either, yet I'm upset that she doesn't like me...silly. I'm working on not obsessing I swear!! Also, flying fart= fabulous phrase. Alliteration not intended.

Oh and we ARE actually FB friends- thats how I know i miss the invites, because I get on and its like, "483209483209 of your friends are going to "Lets leave out chrissy1 night!" well its really like, 10....

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by crissy1

I know I know. I'm trying not to get upset about it. It's pointless. It really is. I know its stupid because I dont like her either, yet I'm upset that she doesn't like me...silly. I'm working on not obsessing I swear!! Also, flying fart= fabulous phrase. Alliteration not intended.

It's like that one part in "Mean Girls":

"The funny thing is that I could hate Regina George, but at the same time, I still wanted her to like me."

[crissy1]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

It's like that one part in "Mean Girls":

"The funny thing is that I could hate Regina George, but at the same time, I still wanted her to like me."

God I know! I'm such the gretchen weiners! Maybe I could just be like, "well my father, inventor of the hot pocket, hates you". If only my father did invent the hot pocket... In all honesty though- Im not a gretchen. I just dont want to be a lindsay lohan.