My pledge sister wants to depledge but I really want her to stick it out.

[LaRues_Lady]

Do you know why she is wanting to depledge? Is it financial? Does she not feel comfortable around the other sisters? Something else? I ask because it would be easier for me personally to tell you what you might be able to tell her to think about before making that final decision.

Good luck and I hope she makes the right decision for her!

[greekintraining]

its mostly that she is having a hard time taking the crap that we as pledges get. Weve been told on the side by some sisters that its all just an act and that its more important to listen to what is being said rather then how. I try to tell myself that so many girls before me had to deal with the same stuff and it keeps me going. I realize that everything has a purpose to get us more united and learn about the history of the chapter. I think one issue is that she feels the need to be perfect. She is also worried about how her grade might be getting affected. We all know that the main purpose of college is to get a degree and that is ranked above pledging. I tell her that its ok if she needs to go do something for school and miss an event but she feels guilty that she is letting us down. I think shes trying to put way more of her self into pledging then she can.