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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair
2 words.... ACTIVE LISTENING
Don't go into a party with a list of canned questions. Just enter into a conversation naturally and LISTEN to what the other person is saying. Base your next question (or comment) on something she said.
Example:
"What did you do with your time off this summer?"
"Oh, not much -- just worked and went to see my grandparents."
Next question...ask about work or where her grandparents live, etc.
Active listening is the key.
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Can I just say this is great advice even for guys pursuing NPHC fraternities.
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