It's all about finding balance. Yes, the sorority is important, but it shouldn't be any members ONLY focus in life (after all, we're in college to get an education).
There are times when you will be totally immersed in everything sorority, and others when you will feel like you need a break. It's normal.
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"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi