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Old 09-19-2008, 09:14 AM
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It's all about finding balance. Yes, the sorority is important, but it shouldn't be any members ONLY focus in life (after all, we're in college to get an education).

There are times when you will be totally immersed in everything sorority, and others when you will feel like you need a break. It's normal.
I agree. When I was active I loved Theta and did everything I possibly could down to holding two offices, and making dean's list. When I went alum I was ready for a break, but the alumnae group here ......let's say isnt a good fit for me at present time. I'm so excited to be involved with my chapter again this year as a facility corp. board member & secretary, and recruitment/membership & panhellenic advisor to my chapter. I picked Panhellenic because I want to hear/know about what everyone else on campus is doing too not just my chapter
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Old 09-19-2008, 10:34 AM
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I agree. When I was active I loved Theta and did everything I possibly could down to holding two offices, and making dean's list. When I went alum I was ready for a break, but the alumnae group here ......let's say isnt a good fit for me at present time. I'm so excited to be involved with my chapter again this year as a facility corp. board member & secretary, and recruitment/membership & panhellenic advisor to my chapter. I picked Panhellenic because I want to hear/know about what everyone else on campus is doing too not just my chapter
I think that needing a break is pretty common. I did the same thing and after a 10 year hiatus of settling into a career, getting married, etc., I was ready to step back into the sorority as an adviser and help out again. That is one of the wonderful things about alumnae status, you can get as involved as you want to be. After 4 years of living life for my sorority, it is nice to now fit it into my availability instead of working my schedule around it.
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Old 09-19-2008, 11:05 AM
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I think the OP just accepted her bid. We're not talking about post-graduation or senior burnout.
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Old 09-20-2008, 04:14 AM
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There is a phenomenon among new members that I and my best friend from college dubbed:

"MY SORORITY IS THE CURE FOR CANCER!!!!"

Women who suffer from this ailment find themselves spontaneously drawing the symbol of their sorority underneath their name every time they sign it. (This often might occur while they are writing on others' dormitory door whiteboards.) They like to talk about their sorority incessantly to everyone around them, even if those people are not particularly interested in their sorority or Greek Life generally. Indeed, sometimes a person's lack of interest will egg the new member on, as the new member tries to convince them that really, their sorority IS the cure for cancer. These women may plaster every surface of their dorm room with sorority colors and symbols and wash their bid day shirt several times a week so they can wear it more often (bonus points if the new member buys extra t-shirts from the sorority t-shirt vault in order to wear her letters more often).

This illness may infect even the most rational, stable women. It usually persists until AT LEAST the end of the new member period, and often all the way through the following years' recruitment.

So yes, your obsession is perfectly natural. I think having one is a normal (and exciting!) part of the cycle of sorority life.
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Old 09-21-2008, 10:46 PM
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Then they hit senior year and decide that their sorority is akin to a fatal illness, so they refuse to go to chapter, and when they do show up, they do eye rolls and won't participate in anything because they are way too cool for school. Except maybe for formal.

And then they graduate, find out they are back in the big pond as a little fish again, and creep back towards center again.
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