Wedding Invitation Etiquette Question

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by BetteDavisEyes

That's the plan. So far, I have bought the book Great Sex for Dummies, a can of body cream, and am searching for something gaudy & tacky to wear. Preferable with fringe.

I'm in uber-bitch mode now.

You are now court ordered to come back to this thread after the shower and tell us how it went. Thank you.

I think it's just rude to put that on the invites. Generally, people are not going to do that for shower anyway (they save that stuff for the bachelorette).

However, when she put that in the invites, it created an adverse reaction of sorts. People are offended that she'd think they would do it (and pissed at the rudeness of it), so they do it anyway.

[BetteDavisEyes]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

You are now court ordered to come back to this thread after the shower and tell us how it went. Thank you.

Consider it done.

It will be well worth it as she is super conservative and LDS. Heh-heh! I can only imagine the shock on the faces of all those women.

[OneTimeSBX]

if i may pop in for a second ladies!

my bff had a surprise bridal luncheon that i threw for her a few years back. one of our other girlfriends decided we should play games, and one of them was a 20 questions type deal. bff insisted we not go there, because she didnt want to tell the truth about anything, and had she lied, some people were tipsy enough to call her on it out loud.

as soon as someone asked the question "where did you two meet" she kinda sank down in her chair. i tried my best to save her by saying the mall, but one loud drunk screamed out "no it wasnt! it was on a phone chat line!!" all of our mothers cringed, the drunks laughed their asses off, and the younger girls took notes lol. and then, after about the 3rd fredericks of hollywood open-crotch panty set, i had to step in and take over. so yeah, its funny that it was included in the invitation, but she obviously knows her friends very well! be nice, dont embarass her lol! unless of course, she gets an attitude with you between now and then. in which case i would hire a stripper lmao!

[RaggedyAnn]

Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

one of our other girlfriends decided we should play games, and one of them was a 20 questions type deal. bff insisted we not go there, because she didnt want to tell the truth about anything, and had she lied, some people were tipsy enough to call her on it out loud.

as soon as someone asked the question "where did you two meet" she kinda sank down in her chair. i tried my best to save her by saying the mall, but one loud drunk screamed out "no it wasnt! it was on a phone chat line!!" all of our mothers cringed, the drunks laughed their asses off, and the younger girls took notes lol.

This made me laugh. I was just at a bridal shower that played the 20 question game. I knew the bride had lied to her parents about where she met her fiance, so I called her over and asked what excuse I should be using. Fortunately she had got the courage to come clean to the family over the summer.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by RaggedyAnn

This made me laugh. I was just at a bridal shower that played the 20 question game. I knew the bride had lied to her parents about where she met her fiance, so I called her over and asked what excuse I should be using. Fortunately she had got the courage to come clean to the family over the summer.

Whoa, unless they met in a sketchy chat room, I totally don't understand what the big deal would be!