Is mutual selection really mutual?

[RusheeNumero3]

Thanks. That actually does help a little bit.

I went to all 3 different sororities pref nights. Then I ranked those 3. Yeah I was thinking that I SHOULDN'T have gone to my 3rd choices pref night.

My friend is in my #1 choice said that her vote really did count more because she had known me for over a year. All this stuff is just really weird.

[MerryGPhiB]

Originally Posted by RusheeNumero3

Thanks. That actually does help a little bit.

I went to all 3 different sororities pref nights. Then I ranked those 3. Yeah I was thinking that I SHOULDN'T have gone to my 3rd choices pref night.

My friend is in my #1 choice said that her vote really did count more because she had known me for over a year. All this stuff is just really weird.

Panhellenic recruitment bid ranking is a process and I can tell you from experience that because your friend has a vote it does not count more in bid matching from a Panhellenic stand point. And yes, it does sound weird.

What I can tell you is that while your 3rd choice may not have been your favorite. it would have been great to give them a chance.

I do wish you the best.