Mom new to Greek, daughter rushing. needs help

[AOII Angel]

You can attend as many parties are allowed for each day. If your daughter can go to 5 parties, she should pick her 5 favorite from the invitations she has. If she is invited to 6 parties and likes all but ABC. She should drop ABC and go to the parties that she likes. No one is advocating that she cut a group she likes in favor of keeping a "weak" chapter as a back up. The process usually works pretty well. Making the decision to cut a group is usually less difficult than picking the final chapter in the end. Your daughter may even have the choices made for her. She should got each day to as many parties as she possibly can. If she is invited to fewer parties than the maximum allowed for that day, she can only attend the number that she was invited to. She, also, will not be able to attend more than is allowed each day.